swayed (maybe) by the ladies

hey hey... first of all, thanks for the avid responses! hah this is truly a controversial topic, and you ladies have come out in force! (where are the guys!?? defend yourselves, ol' humorous ones!)

hmm, let me first clarify something about what Ye and WY has said: yes, i agree that you do need intelligence in order to be witty, but in my post i refer to a comparison between the extremely scholarly vs. the witty. Of course i know you girls need intelligent guys; first of all, your man can't be less educated than you, and second, it's potentially a 'face-loss' factor. (and can't you ladies just agree with me for once?? idiots...)

with regards to Esther's example of how a guy can be witty and not be attractive at all, well let's just say that this particular guy in view is an exception rather than the rule =)

Qiong raised the point of there being so many other important things. Hmm, i can only speculate what other factors might matter to her, i.e. the following:
1. bear the name of Johnny Depp, Orlando Bloom or any that of the hollywood hunks, and
2. be able to sing any of her fave brit band songs (right Qiong? hah)

Well, all i can say is that, yes i agree that there are many other impt things, but when it boils down to the crunch, the one crucial factor, then humor is the one facet of the guy's personality that stands out.

Last but not least, none, and i say NONE, have heeded my advice of sparing the funny guys some slack! And none, absolutely none, have gone to talk to the guy whom you think has a funny blog. What am I, stir-fried carrot cake (good to look at, not good to eat)?? Hah just kidding...